A couple of things I learned reading porny comics

Confession: there was a time when I was reading porny comics. And I discovered some fellas really hate women. One of these comics was nothing short of a rape fantasy.

This is Paul Morton, writing for the LARB, on the porny comics of Wally Wood. 
I finally laid money down for Smut Peddler (Amazon) and discovered A) some men didn't hate women; and B) how to relax around The Other (a lifelong journey, really).